Yearning for a new way will not produce it.  Only ending the old way can do that.

You cannot hold onto the old, all the while declaring that you want something new.

The old will defy the new;

The old will deny the new;

The old will decry the new.

There is only one way to bring in the new.  You must make room for it.

-Neale Donald Walsch

(From Eager To Love, by Richard Rohr)